Showing posts with label Children Driving. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Children Driving. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 10, 2023

Out Driving...With The Youngest


 I've been fortunate enough to help two of my children learn to drive.

Now, I'm helping our youngest.

Some things have changed, and some things have not.

When I helped teach the first two, we lived in an area with many more people. I remember driving the kids to an empty parking lot and swapping seats. Then, they would putter around the lot, practice their turning/stopping/signaling skills. They'd get a feel for the wheel, the brakes, the gas, and after a while, we'd change seats and I would drive us home.

This is when they first learned to drive. Of course, over time, they got better until eventually I would climb in the passenger seat and my child would drive us to wherever we were going and many times, would drive us home, too. But, I did not let them on a busy road with other drivers when they were first learning.

This time, it's a little different.

On Sunday, my son and I pulled out the van and I drove to rural Bothwell, Utah. If you're unfamiliar with Bothwell (rural, or otherwise...), you're not alone. I'm not dissing the place. In fact, I'll bet most Bothwell residents would prefer that people did NOT know about where they live. I chose the area for my son to get in more driving time because, well...there's not much there.

And on a Sunday afternoon in January, I suspected we'd be practically the only car on the road.

I was right.

My son climbed in the driver's seat and we were off. We did not go fast, and my son practiced pulling over and stopping several times just in case someone came up behind us and did not want to travel at the same rate of speed as us. The area was perfect, flat valley, long straight (and deserted...) roads.

The driving lesson was a success. He drove for a half hour, made two trips round a loop of a few homes and sod farms, was passed only once, and even drove by a county sheriff. 

So much different than a church parking lot.

We'll go out again and probably to the same spot. My son liked it--he felt comfortable and confident. Hopefully, that will make me comfortable and confident as well.

Wednesday, July 17, 2019

Trying Something New...Writing While Commuting, While Someone Else Drives


It's been a busy week. We open Peter Pan next week. I'm working a forty-hour week, FanX responsibilities are ramping up, and then there's just the normal things that need to get done, every one of them steals a little bit of our time.

But, while driving to rehearsal last night I realized something. 

I could write while my daughter drove us to the theater.

That's actually a very cool thing.

My daughter is getting close to reaching the required number of hours needed to where she gets her license. There's no one in the family that looks forward to it more than her. I'm sure she's sick of having mom and dad drive her to wherever she wants/needs to go. It'll mean freedom, the type of freedom that teenagers used to yearn for, used to dream about. I don't know if it means the same thing nowadays, but I'm seeing a lot of the way I looked forward to having that small plastic card in my daughter.

And she's close.

She's getting so good, I was able to get some work done while she maneuvered the sporty American car (made by Toyota...) through stop-and-go traffic and at highway speeds. Sure, I instinctively pushed my right foot into the floorboard now and again (she sees me do it every time...), but for the most part, I didn't have to worry about her driving. I realized this as I was able to concentrate on the writing, and not her driving.

My wife and I have a dream, that one day we'll back up a nice RV and hit the road, she'll drive and I'll write. I think I experienced a taste of that yesterday.

And it tasted good.