Showing posts with label Family Photo. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family Photo. Show all posts

Saturday, April 25, 2020

My Family...Back Then


I have this photo hanging up in our house. It's my family, taken circa 1968, possibly around Christmas or maybe early 1969. I'm the cute kid on the left. I was probably three-years old.

Since my parents are gone, I think about them often. My mom lived through her children's teenage years, and beyond. My dad never got the chance. I used to wonder what my dad would think of modern events. For example, what would he have thought about the internet, or personal computers. I don't think about that very often now because he, being born in 1924, would be ninety-six years old today and the odds say he'd be gone before now, anyway. He might have seen the Internet Age, but not a world shut down because of a virus.

My mom lived into her seventies. She saw her kids grow, get married, and have kids of their own. She was a wife, mother, and grandmother, and I believe loved each title.

When I see this picture, I think of all that's passed, all that's happened. My dad, having survived the Great Depression, a broken family, enlisting and seeing combat in WWII, earning an engineering degree and securing a good job, would only live a few years after this picture was taken. I've outlived my father by half a decade--that's a strange thought. I've seen my kids grow (no grandkids yet, though...). I'm seeing things and living through things he might not have been able to fathom, advances in every science, every technology, and billions living better lives because of it.

Back then, my parents sat with their three little miracles, three children from three different mothers and fathers, adopted into a new unit. They were the Taylors and for a split second, we all stared at the photographer and smiled (except for my sister...). So many experiences to come, so many joys, so many tears, triumphs, tragedies. I love this picture because it shows unlimited potential...the ultimate "before" shot, so much happiness.

Hence, the power of memories, and the images that release them.


Thursday, April 26, 2018

A Decade Earlier...We Rode The Rails


I noticed the sign as I got on the bus this morning. Ten years. It's been ten years since the Frontrunner train began operation. It links the three largest metropolitan areas in Utah. Ten years of transporting commuters, shoppers, students, families to where they needed to go.

I take a bus to work and the train home. I could take the train to work and the bus home (or train/train or bus/bus...), but with my schedule, bus to work and train from work is the best combination for me. 

Ten years.

When I saw the sign this morning I remembered a trip our family took back when the train was new and the UTA (our public transportation system...) offered everyone free rides. We parked the van, crossed the bridge and sat on the benches while waiting for the next train. We asked a stranger to snap a picture of the whole family.

Looking through digital photo albums, I found the picture.

Ten years.

It was the year after my mom passed away and the kids looked so little. They looked that way because they were that little. Today we have three legal adult children and one new teenager. Back then the oldest child was the same age as our youngest is now.

I know many hate the idea of spending millions of taxpayer dollars on public transportation. Personally, I love riding the train. It reminds me of when I lived in Denmark and, a few years later, traveled around Europe. Even though the train came before the automobile, for me there's something more sophisticated about traveling by train. 

I'm glad we have the picture of the family. We don't have a lot of pictures with all of us together. And just think, we have a train to thank for it.